Tender Chaos Club
Welcome to the circle where fidget toys are sacred tools, meltdowns are normalized (for you and the littles), and we honor both the overstimulation and the overloving that comes with being a neurodivergent caregiver.
This space is for the ones parenting with tangled thoughts, scattered spoons, and deeply attuned hearts. For the ones who stim while breastfeeding. Who hyperfixate on parenting blogs at 2am and forget the school project at 8. Who want to raise conscious, whole humans while unmasking and reparenting themselves.
Here, we:
Vent without shame
Share tools that actually make sense to a spicy brain
Hold space for meltdowns and miracle moments
Talk real about burnout, boundaries, and brave love
Celebrate pleasure, play, and imperfect parenting
There’s no such thing as “behind” in this circle. You get to show up however you are—chaotic, costume-clad, or crying under a weighted blanket. We'll meet you there, snack in hand.
💚 Drop your go-to stim, your latest parenting win/fail, or just a “hi, I’m fried” in the comments.
You’re not too much here.
You’re exactly the kind of magic we need.